Situation:
Girl Y fell in love with Girl Z but wasn't sure whether Girl Z would reciprocate. So Y spends an entire year showing Z, who seems to like Y's company, that she means business. Did the whole nine yards for the woman. Y finally decides to get her answer after a year, which Z had effectively eluded for a good 12 months. Z then tells Y that she had been holding a torch for this man for as long as she can remember. Y is devastated.
Straight man thinks Z is being selfish for not telling Y earlier that Y never stood a chance.
Gay man thinks Y should stop communicating and move on.
Malditera's Ex thinks Y unloaded too much on Z and didn't give Z enough time to process.
Two days ago, she decided not to pursue Z anymore. But today, she sends Malditera a message: "Ookay! Convince me again why I should not attempt to communicate with her over the next couple of weeks. Haha! I need to constantly remind myself by reading your advice."
Malditera says:
Since I actually forgot most of what I had said during that conversation with Y, Straight Man, Gay Man and The Ex...will just try to be as coherent as possible.
- Have some pride, girl! How long are you going to make yourself suffer this unrequited love?
- Give her space to digest what you really are to her. She can't do that if you're always in her business.
- You've given her the entire year. Do this for yourself, for a change.
- Competing with a phantom is an exercise in futility. Do not underestimate the power of laser-like focus.
- If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Don't force it.
BOYCOTT AMERICAN WOMEN
ReplyDeleteWhy American men should boycott American women
http://boycottamericanwomen.blogspot.com/
I am an American man, and I have decided to boycott American women. In a nutshell, American women are the most likely to cheat on you, to divorce you, to get fat, to steal half of your money in the divorce courts, don't know how to cook or clean, don't want to have children, etc. Therefore, what intelligent man would want to get involved with American women?
American women are generally immature, selfish, extremely arrogant and self-centered, mentally unstable, irresponsible, and highly unchaste. The behavior of most American women is utterly disgusting, to say the least.
This blog is my attempt to explain why I feel American women are inferior to foreign women (non-American women), and why American men should boycott American women, and date/marry only foreign (non-American) women.
BOYCOTT AMERICAN WOMEN!
The comment above was something I fished out of the spambox...I kind of found it amusing, so I fished it out. Lessee...well, dude...first, you're preaching to the wrong market. We are not interested in heterosexual relationships. Secondly, most American lesbian women we know -- at least the ones I follow -- are the most creative, productive women I've ever come across.
ReplyDeleteIn this blog, what intelligent woman would want to get involved with a MAN? (When we can do what most men feel that they can do.) Feel free to talk to the resident gay dude here. He's the only one interested in men.